It sounds like a simple idea to be considerate when asking someone to go above and beyond (pick up extra shifts or take on an extra project). However, I can’t count how many times I’ve heard or seen people in the world try to “attract bees” with vinegar instead of honey.
Are you seeing stuff like this too? (not just in movies)
or how about what I call the “Leave 17 Voicemails” approach?
It just doesn’t work. Kindness is key.
- Ask, don’t tell.
- Say please and thank you.
- Show that you care.
- Explain why you need it.
- No means no. If they say no, move on. (They might say yes in the future if you don’t ruin the relationship)
- Be pleasant.
Also, it’s important to surround yourself with caring, respectful people so that you can be caring, respectful back. It makes for a nice situation.
About the Author: Aaron lives in Milwaukee, WI and is the President of Clear Medical Solutions. When he’s not leading new initiatives, he periodically takes on interim leadership or consulting projects. He also enjoys teaching, speaking, writing, and sharing his passion for people and their healthcare.